6. You’ll probably have a little less help
I remember a cousin complaining no one cares when you have a second baby. While I haven’t found this to be true, I have found there’s a little less help to go around. Even when people do help, there’s an extra person to take care of, so often the help is directed at taming your older child. Of course you’ll be grateful for anything you can get it, but it will feel different, trust me. Dads seem to go back to work a little faster after baby number two, too.